Okay, so in case you weren't aware, I'm a girl. And girls tend to get a little...shall we say....emotional. I'm feeling emotional tonight after a night out with friends....so I'm doing a post about the pros and cons of being single. Sensible thing to do, right? (Perhaps I'm trying to prove to myself that there is a blessing in waiting...)
Promise and I are in high school. It seems like most of the people I know are pairing off (or about to). I can't quite put my finger on this feeling, but it has something to do with feeling lonely...
Cons: (I'll admit, these are weak arguments....)
-- You have no one to stand next to when not currently engaged in a conversation. So you're awkwardly standing there...like the wallflower you've always been.
-- Who are you going to tell every single little thing to? (Note to self -- God might feel like a blank wall at times, but He's always there 😊).
-- There's a part of you missing.
There. I put my feelings into words. I feel like a part of me is missing. I feel like I'm half a person.
PROS!!!!:
-- Who cares if I want to go see that new movie or not? I CAN DO WHATEVAH I WANT TO. ;-)
-- Seriously. There are no "I can't, I'm not feeling well today"'s when youre single.
-- There is literally no jealousy.
-- I don't have to remember any anniversaries. This was the first time I went to the library by myself? Great! Let me breaK out the ice cream and Aristocats DVD and eat/watch them in bed. BECAUSE I MAKE THE RULES IN THIS RELATIONSHIP! ;-)
That being said, I'll be excited for that day that I'm no longer only "half a person"...and if I stay single forever, well...MORE ICE CREAM FOR ME!!!!! 😊
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