How to Compliment a Girl and Live to Tell the Tale ~Promise

   Compliments...sometimes they're the self esteem boost we need on a bad hair day or a friendly reminder that you're special. But sometimes, I feel like we're afraid of trying to be nice, like we'd rather not say anything at all lest we offend somebody. Today, I'm focusing on how to compliment a girl, because guys need all the help they can get when it comes to trying to figure out a female. :)
   First off, it's important to try to understand the personalities and hobbies of the girl you're trying to compliment. Telling one girl that her hair looks nice might be taken as a compliment, while another girl might not care at all. Sorry guys, we're kind of diverse in our personalities and hobbies. In general, if you can tell that a girl is making an effort to look put together, like doing something new to her hair or wearing a new outfit, comment on it. Just make sure not to stop at, "Hey, you're wearing a new skirt." What do you mean? Do you hate it? If you're going to make a comment about her choice in style, say something nice about it! "Hey, you're wearing a new skirt. I like the colors!" Now we know exactly what you mean.
   It's really nice to be complimented on how you look, if that's something that's important to you, but don't only compliment her on her appearance. What does your friend like to do? What is she good at? Go beyond! Find out the things that are important to her and encourage her effort. Are sports important to her? Pick something you've noticed that she excels at and tell her about it! Does she play an instrument? Tell her what a good job she's doing on that really difficult piece her teacher assigned her! Those kind of compliments mean a lot.
   Lastly, DO NOT FAKE A COMPLIMENT. Guys, if you tell her that her free throw shot is great, and it isn't, you're going to seem fake. Sometimes an honest answer is better than a compliment. If your friend asks you what you think about her free throw, tell her honestly. Just do it gently. Tell her the truth, but don't be needlessly cruel. You can say that she might need a little more practice, but not 'You stink, find a different hobby.'
   I hope you found this helpful. Did I leave something out? Comment below and tell me! May God bless you! ~Promise